500 Miles Apart

RE: the first meeting thing. Very good advice, albeit I know the reality already- He'll have been on a bus for 30 ish hours..he won't be pretty xP but thank you very much for the reminder!

Tue, 12 Jun 2012 10:53:12 -0400

I don’t want to sound like a buzz kill haha but I’m just saying you probably wont run up and jump him…yes you’re excited, but you’re nervous too..and you’ll be shy for a little while. It will take some time to warm up and eventually you’ll be comfortable with them. It’s all an amazing experience that you learn from, I wish you the bestttttttttttt :)

-Zara

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Mon, 11 Jun 2012 23:34:50 -0400

Why am I still so hungry? UGH I love foooooood

Mon, 11 Jun 2012 21:06:44 -0400

So this is completely unrelated to LDR’s! But I just need a place to rant lol. I’ve eaten so much today but I feel like my stomach is bottomless. For breakfast I had an egg, toast and a peach. For lunch I had breaded shrimp and fries (oh so healthy lol), and for dinner I had lentils and rice. It’s 9pm and I’m still starvingggggggggggg!

OKay that is all :)

-Zara

Every time I get dressed up for something, I wish my boyfriend was here to see me. Is that lame? I...

Mon, 11 Jun 2012 14:21:43 -0400

Every time I get dressed up for something, I wish my boyfriend was here to see me. Is that lame? I just want him to tell me I look pretty, but instead I’ll just take a picture and send it to him. I think that makes him a little sad though, like I got all dressed up and it wasn’t even for him :(

-Zara

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Mon, 11 Jun 2012 14:03:09 -0400

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Mon, 11 Jun 2012 14:01:09 -0400

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Mon, 11 Jun 2012 13:58:17 -0400

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Sun, 10 Jun 2012 23:48:26 -0400

How long have you been together? And when did you guys start fighting a lot?

Sun, 10 Jun 2012 23:37:25 -0400

We’ll we met online in November 2010. We met in person in July of 2011. So officially we’ll be together for a year in July since we made it official then! :)

We're so much better!

Sun, 10 Jun 2012 21:07:16 -0400

People probably think my relationship is bipolar buttttttttt honestly we have ups and downs. Sometimes our problems seem so bad and something we can fix, but when we put it into perspective we realize we can overcome it. SO yeah we’re pretty goooooooooood now :)

If you guys have any questions about our relationship, please feel free to ask :)

-Zara

I told him we need a break

Sun, 10 Jun 2012 15:02:46 -0400

Things were getting so bad last night that I told him I need a break. I said it in the heat of the moment and he didn’t take it very well at all. I regret saying it, me and my stupid girl brain, he’d never say that to me and now I’ve hurt him.

I’m not sure whats going on between us because he stopped replying to me last night. Any advice?

-Zara

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Sat, 09 Jun 2012 18:21:17 -0400

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Sat, 09 Jun 2012 16:38:07 -0400

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Sat, 09 Jun 2012 16:33:54 -0400

I was wondering...

Sat, 09 Jun 2012 13:53:43 -0400

Do you guys like when your s.o is protective of you? When is it a good thing and when is it bad?

Hi, hi. In regards to your last post, I think that when you begin to feel a fight coming along, stop. Stop and take a breath, think whether it is worth arguing over or what it is you two are even fighting about. Calm each other down and discuss it. Sometimes, because of the distance and personal lives, we are a little more on edge and become more irritable. But, we don't want to fight, we just want to be able to be with the one we love. So, when you feel it all going down hill, stop and think.

Sat, 09 Jun 2012 13:50:57 -0400

Thanks for the lovely advice :) I do notice that because of the distance little things can become and issue but in person we’re perfectly fine.

thats how all our arguments start too. always something tiny! but then when you realize that it doesnt matter and you love each other the argument stops. dont be afraid to back down either. i'm learning that slowly as he's more important to me than me winning a stupid petty disagreement :)

Sat, 09 Jun 2012 13:49:58 -0400

You have some great advice :) I think I’m learning to calm myself down and back away from the situation

Mark and I get like this alot because it's so far and doesnt seem close enough to seeing each other again. we'll have a big argument then be great again. i dont really have any advice other than hang in there. it's so worth it

Fri, 08 Jun 2012 22:07:03 -0400

Thanks for your advice :) Sometimes I feel like the argument stems from something small and then continues. I am hanging in there because I know I care about him and we always find a way to make it better. So thanks!

so we talked a little bit over text…but things are still kind of awkward and blah..why does...

Fri, 08 Jun 2012 21:52:37 -0400

so we talked a little bit over text…but things are still kind of awkward and blah..why does this happen so often? It’s really frustrating :(

Any advice with people dealing with a similar situation? Like you have really good times and then it just goes downhill and you get really annoyed with each other….

-Zara

so many damn ups and downs

Fri, 08 Jun 2012 15:23:00 -0400

Sometimes it feels like we’re perfect for each other and other times we can’t get a long at all. It’s crazy how good things can be and then they take a turn for the worst out of nowhere. And then the next day everything is dandy. I guess that’s just the way it goes huh.